lundi 22 juin 2015

Choosing The Right Life Coach By Knowing The Personalities

By Bernadette Martin


We are born unique. You and I are different from each other. Even twins have their own differences. All of us have various experiences. We may have the same general situations, but it is still unique in every way. All of us also are born with different personalities.

Due to these personalities, some people are convinced that they are more innate than developed. Every kind of response we make is a choice influenced by your genetic trait. We all face different challenges differently. Some are very determined to get through and solve every problem. Others just tend to give up easily. To avoid situations that can cause you to lose hope and give up, it is essential that we know what to look for in choosing the right life coach.

You see, even if you have found the best among the licensed coaches, but you were incompatible with the personalities with each other, you will never find it fulfilling. In finding your life coach, you need to find the kind of personality you are comfortable with. Through this, you might even understand your own along the way.

Our personalities are defined by many prominent people. We know some of them. David, one of the authors of the bible, had stated some types of people in the bible. Also, Hippocrates, a philosopher, discussed in details all the things that each personality the way they think. Most of these are innate. But it does not stereotype anyone by a certain type because we are all born with unique temperament blends. Here are the four basic types.

Incorporate yourself with the gifted Melancholy. It is the melancholic, the intelligent ones, who are the one who wants to do it the right way. They will always follow rules. They are also sensitive to oneself and of others. They are detailed oriented and organized. They are often serious and melodramatic. But they are known to be pessimistic.

Get most of the wonderful reality in life with a Melancholic person. A Melancholy are the exact opposite of a Sanguine. They are usually silent, deep and serious. They are extremely gifted in many ways. They are reliable for quality work. They love to dig deep with details and be organized most of the time. They are often perfectionists but not virtually in all aspects. But they are prone to pessimism.

Prepare to be challenged by the confident Choleric. They are aggressive and dominant. They are good in leadership. They are mostly workaholics, on which made them known to be more productive that the others. They are good commanders.

Be empathized with a diplomatic Phlegmatic. They are meek and nice. They are usually silent but are friendly. This is the exact opposite of the Choleric. They are good listeners. They are also good at administration. They avoid any form of strife or conflict. But they can sometimes be sluggish and reluctant.

Now that you know the basic, you can easily identify which is your dominant type. Most of us have a temperament blend which means you have another temperament as your secondary trait. Your primary trait is usually how you express yourself and the latter is how you respond. As you search for your life coach, you need to know them. Talk to them, listen to what they have to say. Analyze their composure. Think about the four types. Carefully evaluate if you will be compatible with them or not. In this way, you will understand more about yourself and of others.




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