dimanche 2 août 2015

A Brief Guide To Couples Sex Counseling Temecula

By Kathrine Franks


It is never easy for two different people to coexist in peace and harmony. Often, the differences between individuals may the cause of conflict. Such conflict is manifested in marriages and relationships that can lead to loss of intimacy. Intimacy is essential for couples to stay in love amidst conflicts. Therefore, when it is lost, there is a need to ensure that it is regained. Couples sex counseling Temecula helps restore lost intimacy.

It all starts with an appointment with a sex therapist. He or she listens keenly to the description of the problem and may ask questions to gather more information about your problem. The importance of this session is to know more information about your case and suggest treatment options that meet your needs as every couple differs from the other.

It is not and should not be embarrassing to ask for help from an outsider to save a relationship or marriage. Therapists have client privileges and, therefore, you can be assured that what you share with them is private and confidential. Additionally, the work of the therapist is to help partners discover the source of their problem and together, look for the solution. Their role in therapy is to hold both of your hands and help find the solution together.

Counselling has helped many partners, gay, lesbian or straight. In fact, 93% of couples who have had sex therapy found it helpful and life-changing. It helps address physical, emotional and psychological problems that hinder partners from having a fulfilling intimate experience. Additionally, it may prove useful in cases where sexual problems prevent conception or partners from starting a family.

Although it depends on the situation, most therapists recommend weekly sessions. Others may recommend once every two weeks. During each session, partners express themselves freely and also hold conversations with each other and the counselor. Sometimes, the therapist may give homework which is vital in monitoring the progress couples are making.

Therapists assist with erectile, ejaculation and orgasm difficulties, painful intercourse, and different levels of sexual desire, dissatisfaction and body image. Additionally, if the problems are entangled in relationship problems such as gaining trust after infidelity, they also help. For people who have intimacy problems due to trauma such as incest or assault, counselling helps.

The length of treatment may vary for different kind of problems. For instance, problems with ejaculation and orgasm may be resolved within very few sessions. However, problems entangled in a relationship may take longer to resolve. It may take up to six months and may require marital counselling too. Others such as trauma can take several years to resolve depending on the individual, type of abuse and if violence was involved. The only way to tell how long yours will last is to book an appointment with a counsellor.

Regardless of the amount of love in a relationship, there is bound to be problems from time to time. Good partners who value their relationship know that sweeping them under the rug only worsens the situation. As much as it may difficult to open up to a stranger, it is the best bet intimacy problems. This way, marriages can continue to thrive even under problems.




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